Very true! I mean, I think his whole point is "liberal feminist-y types think that sexual acts and relationships that would be exploitative if they were not between actively and enthusiastically consenting competent adults taking precautions so that all participants are safe and happy are somehow okay and normal if all participants are actively and enthusiastically consenting adults. Haha that's so weird and contradictory!"

And...no. That's actually the whole freaking distinction between rape (and exploitation more generally) and consensual sex!